Have you ever went out on a date, had no intentions of seeing the person again once it was over…but they didn’t get the memo? Instead, they think there’s something more, and you don’t know how to tell them that it’s not. I know…awkward.
That’s a sticky situation to be in because…
You don’t want to come off as a total A** to the person.
You don’t want to be pestered either.
So, what do you do? How can you go out on a date with someone without leading them on?
Here are some tips on how NOT to send the wrong signals, so you don’t risk creating a situation that you’ll later regret:
Think about the last time you had a disagreement with your partner. Big or small, confronted or avoided, how did it make you feel? While you think about your answer, let me explain to you how a small misunderstanding can turn into a source of conflict. Once you understand this concept, you will be able to communicate better with your partner.
How many times have you been on a date, told your friends about it and they immediately laid out the “ground rules” for you? They may have said something like, “Don’t call him first,” or, “If 48 hours pass and you don’t hear back, send a text and say hi,” or any other nonsense like that?
Shouldn’t dating be as simple as knowing what you want and then going after it?
My mother-in-law was diagnosed with Congestive Heart Failure (CHF) two years ago. You hear the stories of how people live with CHF for years with the right type of medications, however, that wasn’t the case for her. Unfortunately, she was born with congenital heart disease that was never diagnosed. Shortly, after my husband retired from the Marines – she became critically ill and was in and out of the hospital.
If you’ve ever had your heart broken before, and want to know how to open up again, I want to say congratulations. At least you haven’t given up. While I don’t have a simple 3 step process on how to do it, I do have one concept that I suggest you start using…
How often do you get a good make out session in? If less than once a day, you may want to do it more. And if it’s been a while, you’ve got some catching up to do because you don’t want to miss out on all the great benefits of kissing.
Yes, kissing can offer a lot of things from romance to eroticism…
But, there are other scientifically-proven health perks that may make you want to start stealing kisses whenever possible :).
Take a look at the following reasons to kiss at least 1 hour today (and maybe everyday):
Going out on a first date should be a fun and enjoyable experience. But rarely do we get that. Instead, we head into every first date skeptical from the jump with a list of questions that does very little to break the ice.
“What do you do? How long have you lived here? What happened to your last relationship?” This is probably one of the worst ways to get to know someone because it ends up being more like a 1st round job interview than a first date.
One of the biggest problems I see is that most first dates are cliché with a boring set up.
Those who get the Total Dating Concierge package have put all games aside and are ready to find THE ONE. This extraordinary service out performs any dating concierge service on the market.
This isn’t for the client who’s not ready to commit. If you’re under this package, you’re in an exclusive position of being among the only clientele who receives a customized dating strategy and execution plan from the Love Scientist herself.
You’ll receive everything offered in the Be Noticed package, plus:
Unlimited email + text coaching
Customized online searches, curating + qualifying of matches
Messaging + correspondence to quality matches
Weekly dating log
Date night planning map
Your own professional team guiding you every step of the way
With the Total Dating Concierge package, you can expect love to be knocking on your door steps in no time. Just as in the The Starter and Be Noticed package, Total Dating Concierge clients are thoroughly pleased because of the powerful change it has on their love life.
The Starter package is designed for clients who enjoy the thrill of hunting for love themselves. They’ve got the energy to search and converse on their own, but want an exceptional profile to help them stand out. Likely, this is someone who’s entering the online dating world for the first time and wants to experience what it’s all about. Or, this may be someone who just wants to test the waters first before going all in.
With The Starter, you’ll receive an intimate 60-minute love strategy session via phone where we evaluate where you are now vs. where you want to be. This is to ensure you have the most successful dating experiences possible on your own. Imagine… waking up knowing you have control over the kind of online dating experiences you’re going to have. With the Starter, that can happen. In addition to your love strategy session, you get a 60-minute style session where you discover how to represent yourself online in the best way possible. Plus, with the Personalized Dating Map and Personalized online dating site selection, you’ll have the perfect blue print to go after your dating goals confidently. If you decide on this package, you’ll be pleased with:
A polished digital presence
Compelling new profile write-up
Insider fashion secrets to look stunning both online and offline
The Starter is delivered via phone and online video where you’ll have opportunities to ask questions and receive golden advice from the experts.
This package is designed for clients who are ready to pick up the pace in their dating life. You’re at a place where you’re seriously ready to settle down and possibly even get married. The dating scene (both online and offline) has gotten old to you and all you want to do now is share your time, energy and joy with someone else. Since you haven’t made it happen on your own yet, you need a deliberate, systematic, and intuitive approach to make it happen.
With our Be Noticed package, you get everything that you’d get in The Starter package plus more personalized coaching along with a crystal clear plan of action. With the personalized coaching, you’ll have someone in your corner to help you navigate the dating site you’re on. Your coach will show you what to look for in profiles, types of questions to ask, and how to *really* read online communications.
This is a more hands-on, personalized level established for clients who are ready to find the love of their dreams. Your clear action plan will include:
Strategies on how to expand your reach both online and offline
A personalized Dating card to make you stand out from the masses
Support from our experts when you need it
You will receive eye-opening advice on what’s most crucial in your love life right now from the Love Scientist herself, Michelle. Her “no nonsense” feedback will help you to know exactly what to do next in order to successfully find love. The best part is you’ll be kept on track to complete the steps via your month long coaching sessions.