I dare you to be totally honest with yourself about this question…
Is sex ever okay on the 1st date?
Opinions abound on this topic. On one hand, there’s the belief that he should “work for it” (or that we should “hold out”) because it’s important to ensure he’s serious about us and that the relationship is going somewhere.
We’re so excited to announce that one of the most popular and leading dating blogs, Dating Advice, has featured us! The interview talks about my journey in going from U.S. Marine to Certified Matchmaker and Dating Coach.
The road to success always has a few surprising twists and turns, and in this feature you’ll see how my life’s journey landed me on unexpected paths.
Looking for actual places to meet someone in “real life”?
Hey, I get it.
With the takeover of online dating, you’d be convinced that the only place to meet anyone worthwhile is on some “big dating site dot com”. Not only that, it’s perfectly normal (…and encouraged) to get out to meet and mingle with different groups in person.
Dating, like most things, has its own rhythm, or natural speed of progression.
When you’ve got two people coming together with different outlooks on life, different agendas, different personalities, and pretty much different everything, you can’t rush how fast things will take off. And the worst thing you can do is force it. If you’ve been seeing someone, but aren’t sure when the best time to take things to the next level is, I’ve got some good indicators to follow.
Have you ever went out on a date, had no intentions of seeing the person again once it was over…but they didn’t get the memo? Instead, they think there’s something more, and you don’t know how to tell them that it’s not. I know…awkward.
That’s a sticky situation to be in because…
You don’t want to come off as a total A** to the person.
You don’t want to be pestered either.
So, what do you do? How can you go out on a date with someone without leading them on?
Here are some tips on how NOT to send the wrong signals, so you don’t risk creating a situation that you’ll later regret:
Think about the last time you had a disagreement with your partner. Big or small, confronted or avoided, how did it make you feel? While you think about your answer, let me explain to you how a small misunderstanding can turn into a source of conflict. Once you understand this concept, you will be able to communicate better with your partner.
Those who get the Total Dating Concierge package have put all games aside and are ready to find THE ONE. This extraordinary service out performs any dating concierge service on the market.
This isn’t for the client who’s not ready to commit. If you’re under this package, you’re in an exclusive position of being among the only clientele who receives a customized dating strategy and execution plan from the Love Scientist herself.
You’ll receive everything offered in the Be Noticed package, plus:
Unlimited email + text coaching
Customized online searches, curating + qualifying of matches
Messaging + correspondence to quality matches
Weekly dating log
Date night planning map
Your own professional team guiding you every step of the way
With the Total Dating Concierge package, you can expect love to be knocking on your door steps in no time. Just as in the The Starter and Be Noticed package, Total Dating Concierge clients are thoroughly pleased because of the powerful change it has on their love life.
The Starter package is designed for clients who enjoy the thrill of hunting for love themselves. They’ve got the energy to search and converse on their own, but want an exceptional profile to help them stand out. Likely, this is someone who’s entering the online dating world for the first time and wants to experience what it’s all about. Or, this may be someone who just wants to test the waters first before going all in.
With The Starter, you’ll receive an intimate 60-minute love strategy session via phone where we evaluate where you are now vs. where you want to be. This is to ensure you have the most successful dating experiences possible on your own. Imagine… waking up knowing you have control over the kind of online dating experiences you’re going to have. With the Starter, that can happen. In addition to your love strategy session, you get a 60-minute style session where you discover how to represent yourself online in the best way possible. Plus, with the Personalized Dating Map and Personalized online dating site selection, you’ll have the perfect blue print to go after your dating goals confidently. If you decide on this package, you’ll be pleased with:
A polished digital presence
Compelling new profile write-up
Insider fashion secrets to look stunning both online and offline
The Starter is delivered via phone and online video where you’ll have opportunities to ask questions and receive golden advice from the experts.
This package is designed for clients who are ready to pick up the pace in their dating life. You’re at a place where you’re seriously ready to settle down and possibly even get married. The dating scene (both online and offline) has gotten old to you and all you want to do now is share your time, energy and joy with someone else. Since you haven’t made it happen on your own yet, you need a deliberate, systematic, and intuitive approach to make it happen.
With our Be Noticed package, you get everything that you’d get in The Starter package plus more personalized coaching along with a crystal clear plan of action. With the personalized coaching, you’ll have someone in your corner to help you navigate the dating site you’re on. Your coach will show you what to look for in profiles, types of questions to ask, and how to *really* read online communications.
This is a more hands-on, personalized level established for clients who are ready to find the love of their dreams. Your clear action plan will include:
Strategies on how to expand your reach both online and offline
A personalized Dating card to make you stand out from the masses
Support from our experts when you need it
You will receive eye-opening advice on what’s most crucial in your love life right now from the Love Scientist herself, Michelle. Her “no nonsense” feedback will help you to know exactly what to do next in order to successfully find love. The best part is you’ll be kept on track to complete the steps via your month long coaching sessions.